your natural state
Today I’m going to share the one thing you’re born with that you need to get back to and 3 steps to do it. It will help you feel better and do more of the things that fill you up. If you’re a mom and you‘ve ever thought your time isn’t your own, you need to listen to this. It will help you feel better and feeling better will help you take back control of your time so you can fill yourself up with what really makes you happy.
My name is Marinda Tervo and I’m a life coach for moms who want to come alive. I help you have at least 2 hours a day to yourself without compromising the home life.
The one thing you are born with is abundance.
Think about this.
When you were born, you were complete. DONE. You were made and your creator decided you were good enough exactly as you are.
Abundance is our natural state. It’s knowing that we are enough + that what we have is enough.
When you were born, you knew that all you had to do is cry, and someone would take care of you. They would feed you. They would change you, keep you dry + warm. You never doubted this. You didn’t care who did it for you. You just kept letting your need be known until it was fulfilled, and it was. You trusted.
When we grow up, we step out of abundance.
We think we shouldn’t ask. We think we’re being too much. That we’re not grateful enough or good enough. We think we have to deserve what we want and for whatever reason, we decide that we don’t deserve it.
What I want to offer to you today is that by stepping back into your natural state of abundance, you can literally change everything about your life.
This matters because how many times have you told yourself that you’re going to go out and have a break but you can never seem to actually make it out the door because you’re so busy making sure the kids are all taken care of and the dishes are done so you don’t have to do them when you get home.
You never make it out the door! And when that happens you start beating yourself up. I should stay home, I shouldn’t spend any money anyway. And you immediately follow that with this is so dumb. I never get to do what I want. It’s not fair. And pretty soon, you start to feel angry.
Listen, I know this because this was me. If this resonates with you, I want to invite you to schedule a call with me. Over zoom we’ll talk about what’s going on in your life that feels so hard and what you wish was happening, and I’ll show you why that’s happening and what to do instead.
There’s 3 things you can do today to create a shift in your life.
one| recognize where you are on the abundance scale
On a scale of 1-10, how abundant do you feel right now? Do you feel like you’re a good enough mom? Do you feel like what you have is enough?
two| ask yourself why
If you’re a 6, why are you a 6? This isn’t a time to judge the number that comes up for you. You just want to notice what it is and to understand it.
If you don’t know where you are, you don’t know where to go to change. This is why a call with me is so valuable. Once you really see where you are, it’s like seeing that pin on the map. You know exactly how to get where you want to go. And working with a coach will have you taking highways instead of creeping along the back roads or hitch-hiking a free ride.
three| settle in
So, know where you are, know why you’re there, and then step 3 is settling in. It’s deciding that you are enough. It’s choosing a route and getting comfortable. You don’t have to be better. You’re complete and you’re doing great.
I built my brand around the American buffalo because it’s a symbol of abundance + manifestation. Whatever you want to manifest into your life is going to stay a dream until you settle in to abundance. When you have what you have, you can have more.
I’ve spent years of my life dreaming about a different life. Thinking that what I have isn’t good enough. If you spend your time this way, you will feel terrible and NOTHING will change.
So on a scale of 1-10, where are you today? Why are you there? And then remind yourself that you’re already enough. You were born enough. You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.
Do this work everyday if you need to! The way you feel matters and it’s 100% in your control. The more you bring yourself back to your natural state of abundance, the better you will feel. And if you want to know what it looks like to jump on the highway with me in the car with you, telling you exactly where to go, then click here and schedule a call so we can talk.
It was great talking to you and if this was helpful, maybe I’ll see you next week. Leave a comment and let me know!
xo,
M
